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Episode 103 - The Murder of Lilie James
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Episode 103 - The Murder of Lilie James

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Summary:

This episode delves into the tragic case of Lilie James, exploring her life, the events leading up to her death, and the broader issue of domestic violence. We discuss the disturbing behaviours of her perpetrator, Paul, while exploring the warning signs, the role of coercive control, and the importance of awareness to prevent such tragedies.

 

Keywords:

Lilie James case, domestic violence, mental health, legal insights, crime analysis, coercive control, femicide, stalking, mental health, warning signs, prevention, legal issues, family impact

 

Sources and other links

Lilie James victim of “calculated premediated killing” by ex, The Guardian, Nov 2025

Inquest into the deaths of Lilie James and Paul Thijssen, Coroners Court New South Wales

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Key Takeaways

  • Lilie James was killed in a calculated, premeditated attack by her ex-partner Paul Thijssen
  • The episode examines coercive control, stalking, and warning signs as factors in domestic violence cases
  • Awareness of domestic violence patterns and prevention strategies are discussed as important for preventing similar tragedies

Frequently Asked Questions

Who was Lilie James?

Lilie James was a victim of murder by her ex-partner Paul Thijssen in a case described as a calculated, premeditated killing

What topics does this episode cover?

The episode explores Lilie James's life, events leading to her death, domestic violence, coercive control, stalking, mental health, warning signs, and legal issues

Where can Australian listeners find support?

Lifeline Australia can be reached at 13 11 14, or listeners can seek assistance in their respective countries

What sources are cited for this episode?

The Guardian article from November 2025 describing Lilie James as a victim of calculated premeditated killing, and the Inquest into the deaths of Lilie James and Paul Thijssen from Coroners Court New South Wales